Am truly blessed to have a bear who stays over to take care of me when I’m so sick with fever, lose my voice from sore throat and dropping nose skin cause I sneeze so much.

And making the effort to buy and spam me with my favourite cooling herbal tea when I’m anything but my usual bundle of joy and hyperactiveness when I’m around him and family.

Forget my managerial work load that can never be completed, forget his annoying work screw ups that always spoils our day, forget the heavy obligations and liabilities that some friends can’t seem to understand that has always been weighing on our shoulders.

All we want is to focus on our #perfectreflection involvement in each other’s lives.

Seriously don’t have the strength to fight hypocrites and taiji masters around us much more. I’m getting old.

At this age, all we need is a partner that’s like a bottle of herbal tea we can’t get enough of to tide us through hard times, hot weather or just for refreshing purposes on days we just feel like dying.

Thanks bear, for being there.