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Everyone Is A Liar (Potentially)
Thursday, August 8, 2013 @ 4:38 AM
When people tell you people should be real, they are lying. When people tell you they are on your side, they might be lying. When people tell you they like you just the way you are, they are definitely lying. Firstly, ,how real are them towards you in the first place? When you are real towards them, do you know how they feel towards you? Or how are they judging the real you critically? Secondly, when they say they are on your side. How does their actions show? Do they speak otherwise? And do they have any motives for saying they are on your side? Thirdly, is there anyone who will accept you unconditionally? (except blood relations) (maybe also because cannot choose? lols.) People who really accept you are those who accept your good with your bad. So unless you are sure you are already perfect (in whose sense?) If not, prolly they are lying / just plain dishonest / bullshitting you. Surely event he most dense person will realize after while that... In fact people who say people should be real yet not do the same are evil! Lols. They are the people who are the most judgmental and critical. I still hold deadly onto my principle that people should be real. So that they don't have to put on an act all the time but serious filtering is required. Who are the persons whom they deserve for you to be on their side. And also deserve to "enjoy" being with the real you. Recently I ever had an acquaintance come up to me and tell me I was too direct. Sometimes the way I say things may be harsh at times but it was intended. Sometimes when I say certain things in a way, I have an aim in mind. It could be a warning, a hint or just a plain old simple miscommunication. But the bottom line is, anything I do, I can stand up to my conscience. I am glad, though sometimes restricted, to be over-rational to certain matters. Been through quite a lot mentally and emotionally these past weeks. Or in fact since the start of this year. I have learnt and lost, much. Still learning a lot nowadays, everyday, especially about people mgmt. Some instances are heartwarming while some are really bone-chilling. And some,I just understand I have to let go and move forward to go on. No matter what, I am thankful for all the lessons I have been given. The chances and faith select few have had in me, to talk things out. To sit down and really iron out issues with me. These people, I believe, are here for the long haul, be it in my heart or life.  |
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Mummy & Dad @ Grad Day~
