3 black ladies and 1 white lady!
Left to right: Raine, Jeslyn, Daphne (in white) & Rachel! 

Met up with my dear S & I babes yesterday!
Usually will meet only Jes & Rac for K sessions but ytd Daphne came too!
Yays! Very enjoyable to spend time with them! =D

S & I is one of rmy most fulfilling contract job le.
I got to maintain contact with such fabulous colleagues!
Besides every chat we had made me reflect quite a fair bit actually hahas.

We are a very interesting mix of ages hahas.
Im the youngest, followed by Rachel, Daphne and then Jeslyn.
Actually I have tried to imagine myself being like Jeslyn when I am older.

Our characters are quite similar, what with her being a libra as well hahas.
Then again our eras are different so path of thoughts differ too.
What will be shall be ba hahas.

Yesterday we were chatting about rebellious kids.
I started worrying about what will turn out of my kids lols.
I personally did not went through much of any rebellious stage ba.

I was the model student in secondary school I remember.
Everyone fought to copy my homework.
Thinking back, now I wonder why did I do it anyways.

Since Miss Tan always gives more homework than she goes through them. Lols.
But I remember practicing a lot for my maths and still got an C6 only! LOLS!
Never mind, I have long accepted my maths is gone case de.

Why didn’t I turn rebellious? Might be cause of my good company hahas.
Surrounded by all the good natured female company balanced by playful male company hahas.

One thing I have my mum to thank for is the fact that, I can always come back home to her.
she is always there for me when I need her.
Now that I am grown up, I want to be there for her as well.

While facing the struggles of my life.
A female’s youth is very short. Look at me.
After university, barely a year later and I am already 24 years old.

By next year, I will be 25. Exactly prime prime of a girl’s life!
And I hope by next year at least I would have a stable job and decent salary to boast about.
If not, the race is really short.

Especially if I want to settle down early and have my kid fast!
I love kids! Let me just name some advantages of settling down early.
Hahas! I’m such a joke lols.

Disclaimer: my early means above 23 kays. not shotgun or whatsoever. Lols.  

Advantages of having babies early

1. Healthier, smarter babies
(younger body, younger genes)
2. Body slims back faster
(healthier metabolism)
3. More energy to take care of baby
(younger, more energetic)
4. Getting your “life” back earlier
(the older your kid is when y ou are young, you can “PARTY”)
5. Ease of communication
(the younger you are, the lesser generation gap with your kid)
6. Body more receptive to tonics
(the younger the body, the better the medium for repair actions)

All the above IMHO lahs though hahas.

Have been thinking from time to time to have a boy or girl.
Though I know it is not to be controlled hahas.
Boy i can worry less but they always say girl is closer to a mum’s heart?

Hahas. Maybe I AM thinking too much hahas.
But anyways, got to think about this cause yesterday…
There was this discussion about this 16yr old chinese dating a 23 yr old malay.

As a parent, how not to worry?
Ignoring the fact that it is cross racial, how about the age?
People of different ages go through different experiences in life.

The girl is still considered underage yea?
She might not know how to cope if anything pops up.
But then again, at that rebellious stage, who listens to parents isn’t it?

See? That’s why I say… If I have a daughter… How worrisome!
If it’s a boy, the most I would worry is brusies from sports?
Actually from my brother I saw a 7-8 year long worth of rebellious cells.

But now, standing as we are, I am glad to see he is doing really well.
I mean, his attitude is still there but at least he does his studies.
He likes his work. Good enough. (:



Did some taroting asking about my job yesterday.
My cards are actually the chinese version.
I asked:

Qn:   What kind of job should I go for?
Ans:  Creativity. 创意。
         Creative line, something that does not go by too many rules.
         Does not tie you down too much.

Qn:  Should I accept a job with retail hours?
Ans: Love & Admiration. 爱慕。
        Why not? So long as it furthers your path.
        Something you are passionate about.

Qn:  Should I accept a job that is less than $3.2/$2.3? 
Ans: Painful Struggle. 痛苦挣扎。
        Regretful decision. Suffering too much to bear.
        Haste decision, too late to regret, can only blame self. 

Hmmms, food for thought huhs.
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